After trauma, staying away from a dangerous person or situation may be necessary protection, while avoiding reminders can gradually extend into parts of life that are currently safe. Roads, conversations, bodily sensations or sleep may become difficult when they bring the experience close again.
Escape usually reduces distress in the short term, giving the person a strong reason to repeat it. When a reminder is always avoided, there may be little opportunity to discover what would happen if it were approached with suitable preparation and support.
Recognising the different forms of avoidance
Some avoidance is visible in where a person goes, while other forms involve suppressing thoughts, numbing emotion or staying continually busy. A person can attend every required place and still feel detached from their body or keep the painful meaning of an event at a distance.
A systematic review and meta-analysis associated post-traumatic stress symptoms with rumination, thought suppression and experiential avoidance, although most of the data were correlational. Distress can itself increase avoidance, and a formulation needs to examine how the two interact in the person's daily life.
Before approaching a reminder, treatment needs to distinguish current danger from remembered threat and consider dissociation, stability and the person's capacity to remain present. A pace that overwhelms them may interfere with the learning that the exercise is intended to support.
What trauma-focused work involves
Several trauma-focused therapies help a person contact aspects of a memory or its meaning while remaining grounded in the present. Prolonged exposure works systematically with memories and avoided situations, cognitive processing therapy addresses meanings such as blame and trust, and EMDR uses structured recall alongside bilateral stimulation.
Through this work, a person may experience a reminder while recognising that the event is not recurring, and reconsider conclusions formed during or after the trauma. Repeated distress by itself provides little indication that treatment is helping, so the clinician needs to review what the person is learning and how their functioning changes.
A 2024 individual-participant-data meta-analysis found that EMDR and other psychological therapies reduced PTSD symptoms, without clear evidence of broad superiority for EMDR. The result leaves several treatment options to consider alongside the person's preferences and formulation, while retaining the limitations of the comparative studies.
Repeated trauma and treatment preparation
Preparation may require particular attention when there is high risk, severe dissociation or an unsafe current environment. A history of repeated trauma, however, does not by itself establish that direct trauma treatment must be delayed for years.
A 2024 meta-analysis of randomised trials found psychological interventions effective following both single and multiple traumatic events. Outcomes varied, and the category of multiple trauma cannot represent every aspect of a complex history, but the findings provide a basis for considering trauma-focused treatment after repeated exposure.
The sequence still requires judgement about current safety, functioning, other conditions and the therapy relationship. I would also want to know whether preparation is helping the person become more able to engage, or whether the plan has reached a point at which progress needs to be reconsidered.
Reviewing change beyond the exercise
The reason for approaching a reminder needs to connect with something the person wants to do, such as sleeping, returning to work or being more present in a relationship. That connection is particularly relevant for someone who already copes by forcing themselves through distress.
Review can then consider whether an avoided activity has become more possible and whether the person has greater choice about responding to reminders. Those changes provide more information about treatment than how much distress they endured in a session.
Research drawn on
- Miethe S, Wigger J, Wartemann A, Fuchs FO, Trautmann S. Posttraumatic stress symptoms and their association with rumination, thought suppression and experiential avoidance. Journal of Psychopathology and Behavioral Assessment. 2023.
- Wright SL, Karyotaki E, Cuijpers P, et al. EMDR v. other psychological therapies for PTSD: a systematic review and individual participant data meta-analysis. Psychological Medicine. 2024.
- Jericho B, Luo A, Berle D. The efficacy of psychological interventions for adult PTSD following exposure to single versus multiple traumatic events. Behaviour Research and Therapy. 2024.
AI disclosure
Brent Munro researched, wrote and reviewed this insight, with ChatGPT assisting in literature searches, limited research comparisons, editing and image generation. He retains full responsibility for the published content.

